sms sent to richa by me in november 2011

Draft SMS

November 13, 2011

To,
You are really funny-

Dear Richa,

Thanks for compliments.
I appreciate that I am funny.
Are you sure that you are ok with her going to disco. I am not sure. I think you don’t like her to enjoy her life. In my you are treating her like a co dependent. You know what is co dependent?
look on the internet, you have become kind of emotionally co dependent on her as much as she has become to you.

You need to look on this seriously because some where it’s going to make her more inwards drawn when it comes to her feelings. She is already repressed person and she is going to become more repressed. She will look for other outlet. No amount of lecture on culture and God or values or what is right and what is wrong is going to help because if she is not going to get an opportunity to express her emotions at home she will it out side.

I leave it to you. Now I think anyways she has decided to hold the party in one of the empty apartment in the same building which I think is a great idea, I have a feeling that she has a plan which she is not reveling to us, I am very keen and eager to meet all her Boyfriends and find the one who probable she likes. I am going to get friendly with him so that I can interact with him and make her feel comfortable. You also do the same thing. We should support her in whatever she wants to do and be with her without judging her only then can she feel safe and gradually come out of her repressed personality. I hope you will join the party and be therefore her so that you can become friendly with her friends.

How are you?

I hope you are taking care of your health. This time I am very angry with you that’s why I am ignoring you because I feel every time you travel and you get in to trouble and it becomes a big stress for me and Papa because we  can’t see you suffering. Hence I am very angry with you because there was an emergency when you went to Delhi and now again emergency though you tried to hide it. I am assuming that you are taking good care of Papa and that you are giving him all the Deshi Dawai apart from alopathy, I think Dr. Sheikh has a tenancy to over dose him.

There seems to be link between Malaria and Cellulitis, yesterday night I was doing research on Malaria and Cellulitis they both need precaution more than cure.  Cellulitis will keep happening again and again to Papa and also Malaria, he need to take Ayurvedics and natural home remedies to prevent both of them to recur. Yesterday I have looked on the internet for quite a long time. I would appreciate if you will take interest and make sure that next time he doesn’t get any Cellulitis nor does he get any Malaria there should be no recurrence of Cellulitis and Malaria. This is your responsibilities. I hope the Neem Golis have startd. What about Papita ka Patta ka ras?

Most important thing is you are not checking you emails, I have no email id of you and therefore I am not able to keep in touch, what is the best way to keep in touch with you Richa?

Is it SMS or is it email? Why don’t you use BlackBerry, should I give you one?
I am talking to Panditji and finalizing the date for the ceremony between me and Margret, I shall keep you informed, we will try for the earliest date, I don’t think Mummy will be able to attend date as she will come in December and may be by then I may have to even go to Calcutta.

Ashish